Relationships
When the expected answer does not arrive
Surprise can open a question about an expectation. It does not guarantee a lesson or a change.
Writing
Questions worth spending time with.
The conversation you keep postponing. The decision you keep revisiting. Explore what shapes your responses, what matters to you and how you want to meet the next moment.
The conversation you keep postponing. The decision you keep revisiting. Explore what shapes your responses, what matters to you and how you want to meet the next moment.
These essays offer perspectives and questions to explore. The AATAM method and supporting research are explained separately. The method · The research
Yourself
What feels urgent deserves a closer look
A notification is a useful place to explore the difference between a signal and the importance you give it.
Work
The moment your attention moves
Instead of judging every distraction, become curious about what drew you away.
Work
When responsibility meets doubt
A demanding role can contain uncertainty without turning uncertainty into an identity.
Work
The feedback that stays with you
Notice what one difficult comment has come to mean, without turning it into a verdict.
Work
The moment before you agree
A familiar meeting can become a place to notice what shapes your answer.
Relationships
Before you press send
A pause can become a question about what you want your next action to do.
Work
The attention your work asks for
Look closely at the task and the interruptions before deciding how to organise your attention.
Yourself
A different question about a familiar response
Move from a conclusion about yourself to curiosity about a moment.
Work
Before the difficult conversation
Explore what you expect from a room before treating that expectation as the whole situation.
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Inside an AATAM immersive
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Relationships
When disagreement becomes personal
A closer look at the moment a conversation asks you to choose between belonging and speaking.
Work
Engineering judgement when answers are easy to obtain
An answer still needs someone to decide what it is for and whether to trust it.
Work
The decision behind the project plan
Tools can help assemble a plan. A team still needs to decide what matters when circumstances change.
Yourself
After the achievement
Make room to ask what you want from the next thing.
Yourself
A thought you can become curious about
An inner sentence can be examined without treating it as an instruction or a diagnosis.
Yourself
From imagining to choosing
A possible future becomes more useful when you connect it to a moment you can act in.